Complete Remission!

Monday, July 13, 2020

Coming up to our 15th wedding anniversary in just a few days! I asked Matt to hold up a letterboard sign saying "cancer free!" for Instagram but he thought that was cringe-inducing and refused. He was willing to pose for a normal photo though.

If you want to read my previous posts about what Matt has been through since last June, search 'cancer' in the search bar, or start here with the post about his diagnosis.

Exactly 13 months from the date of his first scan, Matt's most recent CAT scan (from July 6th) shows that he is in complete remission from Hodgkin's. We are SO happy to have this behind us.

His oncologist doesn't use the word "cured" until 2 years out, since sometimes Hodgkin's can come back. We were told there is something like a 15% - 20% chance of this happening, so he will be going back for more scans every few months to make sure the cancer stays gone.


We want to give huge thanks to all the doctors and nurses at Beth Israel who took such good care of Matt throughout his treatment!

We'd also like to remind all of you (again) to please go visit your doctor if you are experiencing any strange symptoms – even in the time of Covid, it's better not to put things off when it comes to your health. You can read about the symptoms of Hodgkin's here. (Note the one about pain in your lymph nodes when drinking alcohol. If you experience that, get to a doctor asap.)

A funny story I don't think I've mentioned before in my posts – in the weeks before Matt's diagnosis, we noticed our dog Felix was acting strangely. Although he's always been an affectionate dog with his family members, he seemed especially... clingy, with Matt. So much so that I took some photos of the behavior and we laughed about it. Note Felix, (that's his bum in the picture) pushed up against Matt even though it was a warm Spring night.



As a scientifically-minded person, I am fully willing to admit this might have been a coincidence, or due to the dog feeling some stress for another unknown reason. But there is evidence suggesting that dogs can, in some cases, actually smell cancer. (Note: oncologists' opinions welcome on this topic if you want to comment or message me!)

Since leaving Rue La La in April, Matt is very much enjoying not working (and spending time with our boys and Felix, who is not as clingy these days.) You may see him pitching in on our Sample Sale Mom facebook group from time to time – make sure to follow us there and on Instagram, if you don't already!

Memorial Day Sale at Backcountry!!! Marmot, Patagonia, The North Face, Salomon and More!

Monday, May 18, 2020


This post was sponsored by Backcountry and ShopStyle and contains affiliate links (I will receive a percentage of commission if you make a purchase through one of my links.)


I'm partnering with Backcountry to tell you about their incredible Memorial Day sale and share my outfit picks for Spring! For anything that isn't already on sale, you can use code 'SAMPLESALEMOM' to get 15% off your first order at Backcountry.com.

I'm excited about this for a few reasons - one, amazing brands from one of my favorite sites (I absolutely love the clothes I chose here, read on for links to everything.) Two, this gave me a nice excuse to take a day off and go out for a nice walk in the woods with my family, which is where I am the happiest! And three... new duds for my dog, Felix! (Isn't he the cutest??)

The past couple of Summers, I've taken the kids out west to explore some of our national parks. It's something we look forward to for months. I always order a lot of clothes and gear we'll need for the trip from Backcountry. Well, this year due to the pandemic, no trip unfortunately - but we can still get out and enjoy nature as a family and get some fresh air and exercise.


I was thrilled with the North Face Zoomie jacket I got for the transitional weather we're having in New England lately. It's wind and waterproof, hooded, really flattering on and fits true to size. Also it's fairly light/packable and will be perfect for when I am able to travel again! What I love best about it is the draw-string waist, which is totally adjustable. And it comes in lots of other colors (navy, black, tan, and the yellow is so pretty!)


I'm wearing this lightweight Patagonia patterned crew top (great for working out, runs true to size) and in some of the pics, the amazing Patagonia Hooded Performance Better Sweater. (The Performance models run small in the arms compared to other Better Sweaters, and long and lean overall. It's perfect for running on colder days.)


Here's a full shot of the Patagonia Hooded Performance Better Sweater. My leggings are Prana Pillar seven-eighth length here.


My shoes are these  Salomon Speedcross Trailrunners and wow, they are SO comfortable and also so cute!!! Great arch support. I went with my normal shoe size rather than my normal running shoe size (unlike with most running shoes, you definitely don't need to size up  in these.) My handsome Felix is wearing a brand spankin'  new harness and  leash by Ruffwear. (Backcountry also has  other styles, including front-clip harnesses and a  carry pack style.  We have been using Ruffwear for years and think they are the best for dogs!)


Here are some of my picks from the Memorial Day sale:

1. Boys Patagonia down sweater (Balkan Blue)
2. Salomon Speedcross Trail Running Shoes (I'm wearing these in the pics above)
3. Marmot Hailey Down Jacket
4. North Face Girls' Balanced Rock Insulated Jacket
5. Columbia Arcadia Jacket
6. Men's Patagonia Topley Down Jacket
7. Marmot Halo 6-person Tent
8. Women's North Face Aconcagua Jacket
9. Women's North Face Apex Jacket
10. Marmot Trestles Sleeping Bag
11. Women's Stoic Heather pullover (runs a little small so size up!)


Update on Matt (April)

Wednesday, April 15, 2020

Photo taken back in February, before we just stayed home and kept it allll casual alll the time. 
A lot of you who follow my facebook group have been asking me for an update on how Matt has been doing. I am happy to report that he is doing really well (he's outside playing basketball in the driveway right now while I write this.) It has been a long, strange year.

For anyone who has not read my previous posts, in June of 2019 Matt was diagnosed with Classical Hodgkin's Lymphoma – This was utterly out of the blue and made for one of the worst weeks of our lives. You can read about it here. You can see from his early scan in my follow up post here. Below is Matt's most recent scan, which was taken after 6 months of chemotherapy, on December 9th 2019.


See that tiny orange-ish ball that looks like a miniture sun? That is what remained of the 'hot' (or "live") part of the cancer in December. Surrounding it is a shell of 'dead' cancer. His oncologists decided that it was best for him to have 17 treatments of radiation in January, to make sure the cancer wouldn't regrow. Every week day for 3.5 weeks he headed in for a quick, targeted radiation treatment.

For anyone reading this who might be starting the process with a lymphoma now, or have a loved one starting the process, the chemo was not actually as bad as he had feared. Yes, it was debilitating and he lost his hair and eyebrows. Yes, he was exhausted and slept through many days and had to stay in the house to keep away from germs (which I'm sure most of you can relate to at this point!) And he had some degree of unpleasant side effects like neuropathy (numbness in his hands and feet). However, he only had a little bit of nausea and maintained a good appetite. He says the worst part was that first week, especially the biopsy surgery/recovery, which was quite painful. The radiation didn't have much of a noticeable physical effect aside from some fatigue. Interesting fact we didn't realize about radiation (at least on the chest, for this type of tumor.) You have to get tattooed for it! Yes, in order to get the radiation aimed at exactly the right spot, Matt had to have several little dots permanently tattooed on his body. They look like dark freckles.

Radiation takes a while to work, so we have not yet had Matt's final scans, but the docs are very optimistic that the cancer will be all gone. We are supposed to go back later this month, but his appointments may be pushed back due to Covid-19. Once he has a clear scan, he can schedule surgery to have his port removed. Then he will go back for scans often for the next few years, to make sure the cancer stays gone.


Once Matt was adequately recovered from his radiation treatments, he headed back to work - but not for long! At the beginning of March, Matt had jury duty that he had postponed during his treatment. He went in expecting to be sent home the same day, but he was instead chosen to serve as a juror on a first degree murder trial! Matt wanted to do his best as a juror and was excited to serve, but mid-trial, the state declared a mistrial due to Covid-19, and everyone was sent home.

Matt then went back to work for a couple of weeks... until he was laid off. Please do not feel sorry for him though! He feels extremely lucky to have finished chemo before the pandemic (he is no longer immunocompromised) and he's actually very excited to be stay-at-home-dadding-it for a while, and helping out more on our facebook page and group. (Please spread the word to friends about our facebook group and follow us on Instagram here. )

Huge thanks to Matt's doctors and nurses! Also to all of you who sent nice messages, and shared your stories of having been through this yourselves, or having a partner/sibling/parent go through it.

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More information about Hodgkin's Lymphoma here. (includes symptoms. A couple of symptoms of HL are night sweats and pain in the lymph nodes after drinking alcohol - although Matt had neither of these symptoms.)

A couple of Hodgkin's Lymphoma facebook discussion groups I found helpful here and here, for anyone who has been recently diagnosed.

OshKosh Spring/Summer Boys (Up to Size 14!!!)

Tuesday, March 31, 2020


This post was sponsored by OshKosh and contains affiliate links (I will receive a percentage of commission if you make a purchase through one of my links.) 


Like everyone else, we are chilling out at home for the forseeable future... but my boys are SO looking forward to getting outdoors for the nice Spring weather, once it decides to show up around here! For now we got some cute affordable basics from OshKosh - you can combine in one cart with Carter's and both sites have free-ship-no-minimum right now! Plus 25% off $40+ on many items with code "25OFF" at checkout!


Alex is wearing an OshKosh rash guard and these swim trunks in size 14. (You can mix and match swim separates with other styles.)


Chase is wearing this cute fedora hat, (scroll down, it's at the bottom) a turquoise polo style shirt and these shorts. 


I love the hat for little boys! And such a good value at only $12 too!!!

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Incredible End of Season Outerwear Sale!!! Includes North Face & Patagonia!

Sunday, March 8, 2020


This post contains affiliate links (I will receive a percentage of commission if you make a purchase through one of my links.) 

UPDATE: the REI sale I originally posted about has ended, BUT two more amazing sales on Patagonia and the North Face are on now!!! First, check out Backcountry, where everything here drops another 20% in your cart! Also check Dick's Sporting Goods for some killer jacket deals like this!

Sorel boots. Get 30% off with code WINTER25 at checkout. Makes the fabulous Joan of Arctic boots in all colors only $82 with WINTER25!!! Wow!!! And free shipping! If that code expires, try WINTER25 instead.

Make sure to join and follow the Sample Sale Mom facebook group for more great deals like this!





Carter's Cute Spring Looks (up to Size 14 for Big Kids too!)

Friday, February 28, 2020


This post was sponsored by Carter's and contains affiliate links (I will receive a percentage of commission if you make a purchase through one of my links.) 

Check out the new Spring arrivals for boys and for girls at Carter's - including my son's handsome gingham shirt and flat front chinos shown above! Carter's isn't just for little kids... they make kids clothes up to size 14!!! Yes! Plus you can combine in one cart with OshKosh (also sizes up to 14) to hit the $35+ threshold and get free shipping! Use code MORE4YOU at checkout today to save even more!

Today Carter's is also having a Buy-one-get-one-free swim sale!


We found the dress shirts and pants to both be true to size (Chase is shown wearing size 14.)



Since Chase is a huge Captain America fan, I also picked him up these adorable all-cotton PJs! I'd say they run a little small (cotton shrinks a bit when washed) so go up one size. Lots more comfy and cute jammies options on the site too!!!!


Check out what Carter's has for your little ones (or your bigger kids) today!

Victoria Emerson Valentine's Day Sale!

Wednesday, February 12, 2020



This post was sponsored by Victoria Emerson and contains affiliate links (I will receive a percentage of commission if you make a purchase through one of my links.) 

Victoria Emerson has a Valentine's Day sale on now – wraps are $19.99, Bohos $24.99! Their inventory is always changing so check out the new designs in both silver and gold, warm and cool tones. Shown above, I'm wearing the Opelousa above (the Evora and Attica are both similar if you prefer silver to gold.) many other gorgeous Boho cuff styles too. 

The double-wrap bracelets here and pretty wrap bracelet options too! (There are also some great Apple Watch bands but unfortunately those are currently out of stock at the time I'm writing this. Check back though!)



If you like turquoise colors, check out the Nassua (shown above.) And for lighter bracelets, check out the Bergen, shown below, and the other mini cuffs here.



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Victoria Emerson New Bracelet Styles (Great Valentine's Day Gifts!)

Friday, January 24, 2020


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Victoria Emerson has some - gorgeous new bracelets in stock now! Shown above, I'm wearing the Turquoise and Howlite on Natural - on sale right now (30% off along with all these stone wrap styles!) many other gorgeous Boho cuff styles too. Lots of new bracelets in both silver and gold tones!

The Live Love Blank collection are buy-one-get-one-free right now! And check out the double-wrap bracelets here and pretty wrap bracelet options too!



This Bergen bracelet is so pretty! The white is now sold out, but I prefer the pale aqua toned version here. (Vase shown is available in two sizes here.)


See a few of my picks from the Buy-one-get-one or the stone wraps sales below by clicking the little pics!! Also, if you don't already, follow me on  Instagram, and come join us in the  Sample Sale Mom facebook group for discussion and great shopping deals on clothing, (heavy on the boys' stuff!) beauty items, housewares and all sorts of other kids' stuff! We currently have over 120,000 members!


Lilly Pulitzer After Party Sale!!!!

Monday, January 6, 2020

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Just a quick post to tell you that some big Lilly Pulitzer sales are on right now!!! Check out both the Lilly Pulitzer site and Zappos. *Free shipping on both sites!!!* Also, Saks Fifth Avenue has both girls' markdown Lilly and women's Lilly on sale!!!

The Lilly site will be loading more amazing steals through tomorrow. So be sure to check back to see what gets added! Also, Zappos has free shipping and returns! (Some things are also marked down at Amazon, but the other two have the majority of the great deals.)

You can do a matching look with your daughter - girls' Lilly on Zappos and also on the Lilly site here. 

A few items you don't want to miss! My Essie top, above, fits true to size and is universally flattering. Also here. (Hat is from Eric Javitz, a splurge but totally worth it!!!) Flip flops are $24 here. And $19 here!!!

Tumblers and planners and hi-ball and lo-ball glasses, all $14.

Also I would encourage you to try the Lilly swimwear - on Zappos where it's returnable. More on the Lilly site here. Fits true to size, I am wearing a sz 4 here. It holds in all the right places and has good butt coverage. Unfortunately my exact suit is almost gone, but there are lots of others.


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